You have the ring...NOW WHAT?! You always have the option of throwing an engagement party to let your family and friends in on the big news! EP's are a intimate, fun way to bask in the glory of being engaged! I will let you in on some of the etiquette tips that needed to make sure you don't step on any toes and that everything goes smoothly!
Typically, the bride's parents throw the party, however, in these more modern times, a friend or close family member may take the reins. The easiest way to resolve any controversy that may come about because of this, is to allow the Bride's parents to be the first to offer the celebration. If that means having a second "friends-only" party, so be it! You won't get sick of telling everyone just how cute it was when he was on one knee! :]
Timing is Important for your EP!
It is important to have the party shortly after the engagement occurs,
that way the news is still fairly fresh! You could even plan the party and surprise everyone with the news! This will take some imagination in coming up with a reason for the extravagant gathering, but nonetheless, think about timing!
Who should I invite?
Ahh, the question that always haunts anyone in the planning process. The guest list will (and should) be much shorter that the wedding guest list. However, it is said that the people invited to the EP should definitely be invited to the wedding, as well. Both families and close friends are certainly the ones that should be priority for the Engagement Party.
What kind of party should I have?
Oh, the options are endless! The cocktail party at the Bride's parent's house is certainly a classic, but does not have to be the route you choose. You could have a more formal party with family, and a more casual party with friends. I love themed engagement parties, as well. They are incredibly fun and memorable for the guests! (As if you getting engaged wasn't already memorable! Ha!)
Gifts for the Host
A tip for any kind of gathering is to give the host a token of your gratitude. By no means does this have to be a huge gift or anything over-the-top. Think about it as a couple and decide on something perfect together. Use that imagination!
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